Berry Picking

My older sister Jennifer is really into berry picking.  A few weeks ago she suggested we go raspberry picking and since we have missed out on berry picking with her for years I jumped at the chance to go.  I knew Sophie would have a good time, or at least eat her weight in raspberries.

Sophie got her bucket and headed for the raspberry bushes.  She had raspberries to eat!

She helped put berries in aunties basket but most were either green or smashed.  It wasn’t long before she was done picking raspberries and wanted to go see what Finley was doing.  She looks so small in these pictures.

The reward for all of her hard work was to enjoy handfuls of the berries picked.

We had a great time picking raspberries and I look forward to making some jam once we are settled into the new house.

Today we were going to try and squeeze in some blueberry picking but most of the farms had already closed so instead we went blackberry picking.

Once we got to the blackberry bushes I realized that blackberry picking is not really for kids.  Thankfully there was a playground near by and Nama’s soda to keep them occupied.

While we were all out in the hot sun Benji was fed and resting in the car.

Once Jennifer had picked a bowl full of blackberries Sophie and Declan sat down and started eating.  I love this picture because every time I would ask them to smile Declan would look at the camera and Sophie would look at Declan and smile.  I think she is just happy to have him pay attention to her again.

We kept picking and these two kept eating.  They still look innocent in these pictures…

It wasn’t until a little bit later we realized they weren’t just eating the berries but also smashing them with their hands.

Oh these two they are going to give us a run for our money as they get older.  They are quite the pair.

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Weekend Away

Last weekend we headed down to Lacey to celebrate Mason’s 2nd birthday at his mom Dorie’s family cabin.  It was a beautiful sunny day so Sophie was able to swim in the lake with her cousins.

She didn’t mind putting on a life jacket and then climbing into a floaty and just relaxing in the sun.

Since we were already down south we decided to head west with Megan, Josh and Elsie and spend a night at Ocean Shores.  It turned into quite an eventful trip full of laughs.

We had initially booked two rooms, a studio for them and a 1 bedroom suite for us.  We got all checked in and headed to our separate rooms to get settled before getting dinner.  Megan and Josh surprised us shortly afterwards with a knock on the door and all of their stuff.  Turns out their room was triple booked!

We all got a laugh about it especially considering our two rooms were the last available when Josh booked them a few days prior.  Josh headed to the office to figure out what they were going to do while we all hung out with the kids.

It gets figured out that Megan and Josh are going to be moving to a hotel down the street so Josh heads off with the employee and the other person who was booked into the already booked room.  Shortly after we hear fire trucks.  Turns out the hotel they were going to be staying at had a fire and people had to be moved into the rooms set aside for Josh and the other lady.

Thankfully we had a large room so they ended up staying with us.  It turned into 4 adults and 3 kids in a one room hotel suite.  Although Josh and Megan were stuck with a very uncomfortable sofa bed which resulted in them sleeping on the floor, we made the situation work.

The next day we decided to head to the beach for some play time and a walk.  The weather did not cooperate and was actually really windy and cold.  After snapping a few pictures and taking a quick walk we were ready to head to lunch and then figure out what to do with the rest of the day since the beach was out.

Megan came up with the brilliant idea of heading to Shelton to see Auntie Dort before heading home.  It has been a year and a half since we have seen her which is just far too long.

We had a great visit and look forward to another visit with her very soon.  Sophie especially loved all of the candies she could reach on the table and all of the “toys” on her coffee table to play with.  Check out our last visit to Auntie Dort which includes a video of her with Sophie.  Oh my goodness Sophie was little.

Although our weekend didn’t turn out completely as planned it was so much better in the end.  Not only did we get to spend time with family and have our first trip as a family of four but we also got to introduce Auntie Dort to Benji.

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Adjusting

Having a newborn in the house has been an adjustment for all of us.  Once you have two kids you think back to your first and realize it was a different kind of hard than what you are now experiencing.

With your first everything is new and therefore a challenge.  But with your second you are a ‘pro’ at the basics and failing miserably at juggling two kids, one of which is a toddler.

We were fortunate to have Sean’s mom down for a few days after Ben was born and then his dad and step mom here for a few days as well.  That mixed with Sean being home for a week and my family 30 minutes away, the first few weeks were not too bad.  But once our ‘helpers’ went back to their daily life it has been an adjustment to balance our time with both kids.

Sean is super dad taking on much more with Sophie so that I can focus on Benji, this was all while recovering from heart surgery.  Once Sean went back to work I had to figure out what our days were going to look like.  In the beginning there was a lot of Caillou being watched so that I could try and get something done besides just making it to 5:00 when Sean got home from work.

One thing is for sure during that time, Sophie adores her little brother.

As is the case with my sisters and I if we are tired or hungry all bets are off.  If you combine either of those things with me holding or feeding Benji then there is chaos in the Payne household.

This is what I like to call 2 minutes with a toddler!

There have been many moments where I just wanted to go in another room and cry.  When I have a colicky baby and a toddler that is going crazy I get worked up and overwhelmed.  During these moments of pure frustration and anger and I am not proud to say that Sophie has been on the receiving end of that frustration.  I have to remind myself that she isn’t doing these things on purpose that she is a toddler who had my complete attention for 22 months and now she has to share me with Benji who requires much more of my attention right now.  She is adjusting.

But here we are 6 1/2 weeks into it and things are so much better.  We are getting into a routine and slowly things are getting easier, you find things that work and you go with that until it doesn’t work any more.  Every day is different and I know our new normal will set it soon.  For now we are taking lots of walks and watching insane amounts of Caillou.

Life is crazy at times right now but I wouldn’t trade it for the world because it means we have Benji here and I couldn’t be happier.

 

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Dance Class

Sophie just finished her first dance class through the local parks and recs center.  She had such a great time.  We missed her first class since Benjamin was born the day before and we just couldn’t get out of the house in time for that class but we made it to the following 5 weeks.

From the first class until the last she went from shy and not wanting to participate to being the star of the class, especially when it came to galloping.  One of her favourite parts of dance class besides picking out a pretty dress to wear was the scarves.

Here is a video from the last class of her dancing around with her scarf.  For the first few weeks all she did was wrap the scarf around her neck when we got to this part of class.  This usually left the other moms laughing that she would rather accessorize than dance.  But she got the hang of it and really had fun with it by the end.

I am looking forward to finding another class to sign Sophie up for.  Maybe ballet this time.

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Benjamin Harris Payne

Benjamin Harris Payne was born July 9th at 5:25 am weighing 6lbs. 6oz. and 20 1/2 inches long.

We couldn’t be happier to have him here.

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